Reclaim Your Worth.
Redefine Your Life.
Healing isn’t about going back. It’s about rising into who you were always meant to be.
I help women who have experienced betrayal, narcissism, or toxic relationships rebuild self-trust, rediscover identity, set strong boundaries, and live with purpose. This is transformation from the inside out, not just more information.
EMPOWERING LIVES IN
31 COUNTRIES GLOBALLY
CERTIFIED LIFE COACH
CERTIFIED NLP PRACTITONER
MARRIED FOR 25 YEARS
3 ADULT KIDS & 2 GRANDKIDS
Why I Am Different
Not another healing website.
A philosophy that changes lives.
Self-worth is built, not chased. We rebuild self-trust and self-respect, then worth follows naturally.
You do not need to relive the past to heal. We extract the wisdom, we do not re-injure.
Detach from the right thing. The event is gone, the attachment is what you release.
Real change happens in the subconscious. We reprogram beliefs through aligned action, not theory.
Masculine leadership as service. Strength that feels safe, presence without ego, accountability without control.
One line you will hear often:
Women are not broken, they are grieving. We rebuild from truth, not trauma.
Who I Help
You are in the right place if you are:
Intelligent and self-aware, but tired
of looping in the same patterns
Ready to build boundaries, speak truth without guilt, and feel safe in your own skin
Willing to do the work,
not just talk about it
This is not for you if you are:
Looking for a quick fix
or a motivational hit
Wanting to revisit the past in circles without changing your present
Unwilling to take radical ownership
of your growth
Flagship Transformation
The Phoenix Program
Six stages, one outcome: your life back.
Rebuilding Self-Trust – reconnect to your intuition and rebuild inner safety.
Discovering Your True Identity – uncover who you are beneath roles, labels, and pain.
Setting Boundaries That Protect Your Peace – say no without guilt, speak truth with confidence.
Letting Go of the Past – release emotional weight and rewrite old stories with wisdom and gratitude.
Discovering Your Purpose – connect your goals to how you want to feel in mind, body, and soul.
Living Authentically – integrate everything and live boldly, freely, and unapologetically.
TESTIMONIALS
What Others are Saying
Before:
“I didn’t know who I was without him.”
After:
“Now I trust myself completely
and feel peace for the first time in years.”
Before:
“I kept trying to understand why he did it.”
After:
“I stopped needing answers
and started living again.”
Before:
“I was terrified to speak up.”
After:
“Now I say what I feel without guilt, and I feel powerful doing it.”
These are women who rebuilt self-trust, rediscovered identity, and reclaimed their peace. You can too.
Meet Jamie Ryder
Strength that feels safe. Guidance that transforms.
I’ve been happily married for over 26 years, a father to two daughters and a son, and a proud grandfather.
My life is built on the same values I teach: integrity, respect, discipline, and devotion.
I know what it means to lead through service, to stand firm in truth, and to hold space where others feel seen, supported, and safe to grow.
For many of the women I work with, that kind of masculine energy is unfamiliar: strength without control, structure without judgment, presence without ego.
Experiencing it can be profoundly healing.
My role isn’t to fix or rescue you. It’s to guide you back to your power, help you rebuild self-trust, and walk beside you as you rise.
Because real leadership isn’t about authority, it’s about accountability.
And real healing happens when strength feels safe and feminine power is free to breathe again.
The Sacred Balance of Masculine and Feminine
I believe leadership isn’t about gender, it’s about energy.
True leadership, whether expressed through the masculine or the feminine, is about service, not power.
To lead is to take responsibility, to protect, nurture, and create an environment where growth can thrive.
In its healthiest form, masculine energy provides direction, structure, and safety.
Feminine energy brings intuition, creativity, and connection.
Both are essential, both are powerful, and both are capable of leading, in their own way and in their own rhythm.
The feminine is not fragile, it is fierce.
It creates, sustains, and heals. Women were designed with deep resilience and wisdom, the strength to hold emotion, the courage to bring life, and the intuition to guide it.
Masculine and feminine energy were never meant to compete.
They were designed to complement, complete, and co-create, to rise together.
That balance is the foundation of healthy relationships, thriving families, and powerful leadership, and it’s the essence of the Phoenix transformation.
How We Work Together
STEP 1 – Discovery Session
A 30-minute conversation to understand your goals, challenges, and alignment.
STEP 2 – Personalised Path
A clear plan with milestones, resources, and support
STEP 3 – Deep Work,
Real Support
Coaching, workbooks, and practices that shift beliefs at the subconscious level.
STEP 4 – Integration and Momentum
Boundaries, identity, and purpose lived every day.
Free Resources
Not ready for coaching yet? Start here.
Choose one free resource to begin your journey and experience the philosophy that changes lives.
5-Day Challenge
Rise Without Permission
Break free from guilt, people-pleasing, and fear, and learn to speak your truth with confidence.
Free Ebook
The Art of Mastering Uncomfortable Conversations
Speak truth calmly, protect your peace, and stop carrying other people’s emotions.
Podcast
Real Talk on Healing, Identity, and Boundaries
Listen to powerful conversations that help you rise stronger after betrayal.
Quiz
What Stage of Healing Are You In?
Discover where you are on your healing journey and the next step to rebuild self-trust.
STILL NOT SURE?
Frequently Asked Questions
Question 1: Is this therapy?
No. This isn’t therapy. Therapy helps you understand what happened. The Phoenix Program helps you transform what happens next.
Where therapy often focuses on talking through pain, this program rebuilds the foundations of who you are, your self-trust, identity, and boundaries, so you can move beyond analysis into lasting change.
Question 2: Will I have to revisit traumatic events?
No. We don’t go back to relive pain. We reflect from a higher perspective, the observer’s view, to extract the wisdom, lessons, and strength that allow you to detach and move forward. Healing comes from reframing, not re-injuring.
Question 3: How is this different from other coaching or programs?
Most programs give you more information. The Phoenix Program creates transformation.
It works at the subconscious level to rebuild belief systems, not just surface behaviours. You won’t just learn about healing, you’ll live it.
Question 4: Do you offer payment plans?
Yes. Flexible instalment options are available to make the program accessible while keeping your commitment strong.
Question 5: How much time will I need each week?
Plan for 2 to 4 hours per week, including coaching, reflection, and practical integration. The focus isn’t on time spent, it’s on results created through consistency and aligned action.
Question 6: Do you work with men and couples?
Yes. While my primary focus is helping women rebuild after betrayal or toxic relationships, I also work with men and couples who want to embody the same principles, trust, integrity, accountability, and emotional safety.
Question 7: Is this confidential?
Absolutely. Every conversation and piece of personal information shared is private and protected. Your safety and trust are my highest priority.
About Us
You do not need more information. You need transformation that lasts.
If you are ready to rebuild self-trust, reclaim your identity, and live with peace and power, I am ready to help.
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Australian based, coaching clients worldwide.
